So, uh, hi again. Remember me and my Linkables series? If you're new around these parts, Linkables is where I round up the best the internet has to offer. It used to be weekly, then it became monthly - and then it became whenever I could actually find the time (even though I do love putting them together, and I've been told people love them).
I would say I've had lots of exciting things going on in my life, but that would be a lie. I've just become a cliched adult who has a job to go to, a flat to run, and personal relationships to nourish. I've also been taking more time to myself and introverting self-care time has become a standard part of my life (at last).
But enough about me and my standard life. Links!
If you read one thing from this list, make it this article on how the mainstream chat on mental health is far too cutesy and really does fuck all for people with severe mental health problems.
Shan BOODY is a new (to me) sex and relationship YouTuber. Her work is sex-positive, inclusive, modern and covers topics not always covered by other sexperts. My favourite videos are Women Who Love Casual Sex, Working in Porn with Erica Lust, and The Importance of Sexual Intent.
Co-signed by my personal experience: 8 ways to get over a break-up that are scientifically proven to work.
Also so-signed: Overcommunication is what your marriage could benefit from
Essential Reading: Learn more about the Gender Recognition Act!
Horrible (but still essential) reading: ‘Raw hatred’: why the 'incel' movement targets and terrorises women
I've written before on men caring too much about their fandoms, and I found this great piece that explores a similar theme: The Problem With Not Caring About Pop Culture.
I loved Daria as a teenager (much to my parents' dismay) and as an adult I know why I was drawn to her.
Also yummy: Cauliflower & Tofu Pittas with Mango Dressing
My Instagram Stories game is something I'm trying to improve in both my work and personal life, so this article is just as much for myself as it is for you.
“People will come to you with their problems and imply that you’re the only one who can solve them. This is almost never true.” TRUTH!
What have you been reading this month?
What have you been reading this month?